14
Feb

Susan Seddon-Boulet

 

Do you know that you are beautiful? That the Goddess sings through your voice? That your words are Her words; your song, Her song. That the smoothness of your skin, the glisten of your sweat, your tousled hair – all are a delightful expression of your beauty and your passion. It radiates from you, this glow of pure expression.

 

May it overwhelm you. May this joy and light be embodied by you and every woman on the planet, a gift to yourself that takes you to the exultant heights of your creativity and ecstasy. For that is what you are. Pure, passionate creation.

 

May you hear this in the wind, the waves, the whisper of your lover. May you feel it in the warmth of the sun, the flow of your steps, the freshness of your breath. May you know it in your heart, your bones and your belly.

 

Happy Valentine’s Day.

 

 

Category : Everyday Ecstasy | Goddess | Love | Random Thoughts | Relationships
16
Jun

I received this email from my client struggling with West Nile on her Flow Stretching practice (used with permission):

 

“It’s amazing to hear the remarkable changes that come from something so simple as flow stretching. I’m a true convert. After doing the flow stretching for such a short amount of time, I find any of the stretches I do, yoga included, can be done with more awareness, less ‘get it done’ mind set. I didn’t know Anderson’s book was still around.  I’ve used my dog eared, highlighted with scribbled notes, since my early running days.
 
Now I’m coming up on 2 years since the West Nile, still having issues with back and hips. I can’t imagine what I would have done, had I not started coming to your practice a year ago. “

 

Thank you!

 

Just yesterday, I was talking with a friend training to be a yoga instructor. We were musing on the idea of a class that focused completely on the sheer ecstasy of the stretch. Simply feeling the way each muscle moves, each breath in the body, the breeze in the park (we both thought early morning yoga in the park would be great). Talk about a great Hour of Sensuality.

 

It would alleviate all that worry about competing with your neighbor, stretching too far, getting it right. And while I do believe that form has an important place in many types of movement, it shouldn’t come at the expense of awareness, enjoyment and ecstasy. Thank you very much Robin for your comments in my original Flow Stretching post - exactly what we’re talking about here.

 

As always, feel free to email your comments or post them below.

 

Have a beautiful day,
Ephraim
Category : Everyday Ecstasy | Movement
31
May

As essential as it is for maintaining better movement, stretching doesn’t often make it into a daily routine. Most people want to…they just don’t know which stretch to do and how long and which routine to follow. Sure, getting to a yoga class can be great, but that would involve getting out of the house and at least an hour for the class. For all of those who feel lost on what to do, Flow Stretching is one of my favorite possibilities.

 

A friend of mine had this problem to the extreme. She had been doing yoga for years, until she found out she had cancer. With her strength fading and the pain increasing, she desperately needed to stretch. Only, she was too weak to do anything she had learned in yoga, much less make it out to a class.

She is, however, a woman of great resource. Abandoning everything she knew about specific stretches, she let her body lead the way, moving slowly, painfully, gracefully in whatever way felt the best. Steadily, her strength returned, and her movements became deeper and more flowing. She became more and more aware of what her body most needed, including a greater connection with her energy and her sensuality. Today (she believes in part to that greater awareness) her cancer is in remission.

I told that story to one of my clients who had an unfortunate encounter with West Nile and the resulting spinal meningitis. Even a year later, her hips and spine feel the effects, leaving her barely able to move some days. I encouraged her to try flow stretching, and she had similar results - including an increase in sensuality.

What a fabulous benefit! I imagine, the more you feel deeply into how your body wants to stretch, satisfying the need as you feel it, you can’t help but be more in tune with the sheer luxuriousness of the sensation. I watch my dog stretch in the morning, full out, full body stretch, his eyes closed…and then he’s ready to play for hours (pausing to stretch whenever he feels like it). I can’t help but wonder if stretching not only helps keep our muscles limber but also keeps our mind sharp, our emotions positive, our energy high and our sensual experience more delicious.

And it doesn’t have to be for an hour at a time. Even a few minutes here and there is enough, much like Meditation in a New York Minute. I often Flow Stretch between appointments, in the shower with the water pounding on my back, surreptitiously while walking the dog.

I do want to offer a couple rules of thumb while stretching - though as you stay in tune with your body, I don’t think you’ll have to worry nearly so much. These ideas are from the book Stretching by Bob Anderson (I highly recommend it).

1. Don’t bounce and Don’t stretch to the point of pain.

2. Start with an easy stretch - so you feel mild tension. Hold for 10-15 seconds. The tension should fade - if it doesn’t, then ease back.

3. Once the tension fades, move slightly deeper into a developmental stretch, to mild tension again. Hold for 10-15 seconds and let it fade again. If the tension increases at any time, you’ve gone too far!

Category : Movement | Stress Relief
28
May

You’re doing it anyway. Every day. Every hour. Every second. You see the colors, the movement. You hear voices, footsteps, wind. You feel the texture of your clothes or the air on your skin. Taste your saliva, the lingering flavors of your last meal. Smell flowers, food.

 

Your senses are active all the time, flooding you with information that is most often ignored. And sometimes, it needs to be. You need to filter those things out to allow your mind to focus. Maybe. Even as I’m writing, I notice the pads of my hands resting on the keyboard, the clack of the keys. It’s like accompaniment to the experience of writing, of being in this moment.

But for an hour every day, imagine that accompaniment as the foreground of your life. An entire hour of deep sensual experience. Perhaps do it during lunch, noticing the flavors of every morsel, the speed of your bites, the textures of voices, the temperature of your silverware.

Perhaps try it the next time you make love. Indulge in the sensations in your hands and arms and legs and feet, see the color of your lover’s eyes. Or try it on a long walk, taking everything in through the senses, letting the thoughts that usually distract you fade in favor of feeling your weight shift on your foot as you step. 

And, as you get better, try noticing in times not so obviously sensual. Like at work, or the grocery store, or watching TV. Yet, even those things, once you think about it, are filled with input from all your senses.

Simply notice. Even for 15 minutes to start. Remember: You don’t have to do anything different. This doesn’t have to take any extra time from your day. Just shift the way you perceive things for a few minutes - or an hour. And after awhile, you’ll also notice how your perception broadens, how your curiosity sharpens, how delicious every moment can be.

Category : Everyday Ecstasy

Live with Joy!

This is an exploration of you. It is the process of creating magic and miracles in your life, through truly understanding who you are. This is your chance to open to new possibilities and perspectives. To live simultaneously in your body, in your mind, in your spirit and in your heart. To walk with confidence into your destiny. To live with joy.

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